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Gay dating (bigger men)

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I’m a mid 20s gay man having trouble dating in this city. I do not belong to the stereotype of gay men and my friends make fun of me. Why? Because I like bigger men. (BBW but men)

I am not a bigger man but would like to date bigger men. I feel like because I don’t like the stereotypical Zack Efron type gay men I will be alone forever.

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It’s not fare the gay community discriminates against me for who I like as society already hates gay men. I don’t understand why gay men hate on gay men who don’t fit the stereteotpe. My question is where can I meet this type of man? Online has a lot of cat fish. Grindr and Grommr the same.

Please help!

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  1. Good for you for reaching out! No one should ever judge you for being you, nor should it be something you have to be concerned about. Pls pm me.

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  2. Dan Daniro Dan Daniro says:

    Gay community hates gay people?
    Sue them and you get…. a shit load of money?

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  3. Annie Koziar Annie Koziar says:

    Just be yourself, you will meet a very good one.

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  4. This post just confirms that mean spirited people hide in every corner of this planet. Put that aside. You belong to a very unique group And when you find it I believe you ll be very happy. Best of luck

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  5. Best place for you to go to meet new people is Pride Centre Edmonton.

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  6. Have you tried the social group Fruitloop YEG? Super fun events, parties, etc. Good Luck! https://www.facebook.com/fruitloopyeg/

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  7. Karla Mackay Karla Mackay says:

    We need to be friends. I make a great wing woman. Message me

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  8. Im not positive but i know people in that community. Im pretty sure thats a niche. Your not alone its not uncommon. Get out there and good luck

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  9. Josh Neary Josh Neary says:

    Now I may not be the one who’s advise is the one to take. But shouldn’t the personality and other attributes than physical size or image or whatever. I mean I think you’ll be happier if you find someone you connect with an a mental level as opposed to physical.

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    • I find that the toned gay man has a type of personality that is not so down to earth. (Just based on my experiences). This guy sounds like he probably blends in a bit more…which makes it harder anyways because it’s harder for other gay men to spot him.

      This might sound weird, but this applies to all sexualities. A lot of trim people don’t have the greatest personalities. (Not all of them! Of course there are good and bad personalities in all kinds of packages).

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    • (I agree that love interest should definitely be based primarily on personality and compatibility)

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  10. Jason Kornik Jason Kornik says:

    You will find love where you least expect it. Be yourself, have fun 🙂

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