Leaving my long term spouse
I have gone back and fourth for years contemplating leaving my spouse of now 8 years. We now have two young children (2 year old and 2 month old) which makes things a lot harder to figure out. We don’t get along like we used to.
We don’t have the same hobbies, we want different things sexually, he can’t keep a job (4 or 5 jobs a year every year since we have been together except one job that he had for 2 years) and it’s always his own fault when he loses the job but he always find excuses to why it wasn’t his fault. We have been together since I was 18 so I haven’t known much different.
I want to leave him but I don’t want to make him homeless because he has no family in Alberta and no job. I want him to be an active parent in my children’s life but I don’t know where he will go. Need some help or words or encouragement.